Carpenter’s music video, featuring her boyfriend Barry Keoghan, captures the beauty amid the chaos of dating someone who not only brings you to tears, but jeopardizes your reputation. For Carpenter, her intentions are clear with her message: Don’t embarrass me.

Often hailed as the Midwest Princess by her fans, queer singer-songwriter Chappell Roan is climbing the popularity charts with her hit album, The Rise and Fall of a Midwest Princess.